Snoopy the dog

Today, I sat at the back of the bus and a funny (dont expect too much) and common incident caught my attention. A couple was sitting in front of me, and the guy's phone beeped. He whipped out the phone and was looking at it and at this time, the girl leaned over. I guessed she was trying to see who called or messaged him. You could sense the guy's irritation as he pulled the phone away. The girl asked him who it was and he replied with a trace of forced nonchalance, "Just a friend". The girl contemplated whether to pursue the matter, chose to let it go, but not without giving him "a look".

I guess its a girls' thing. Subconsciously, we are always on the look out for signs of infidelity. Even the ones who appear not to care have another side too. They are quick on their hands and feet when their guy is away from his phone for just a moment. My advice for girls? Dont bother. If you see something that seems suspicious, you cant really ask him upfront as it would be admitting to snooping on him. Yet if you dont ask, you would feel like your bubble is going to burst. Such dilemma is not worth the effort, especially if you are caught in the act.

This reminds me of one episode from Sex and the City where Carrie was going through her guy's stuff when he was out, trying desperately to break open this box which had a lock on it. The guy caught her red-handed. Turns out, the box contained some harmless items like his boy scout badges. They broke up after that.

However, girls will always be girls. There will no doubt be times when we feel insecure and start our snooping act. My only advice to you if you decide to be snoopy the dog is to have an open mind and not freak out only unless you see lovey-dovey messages, which by the way, is time for you to get out! Here's to wishing everyone success in love! Lol, I havent had any luck so far..