Sunday, September 10, 2006

WE LOVE YOU STELLA!!!

It's disturbing how many girls in this world live their lives for guys. If you are a girl, how many times have you been guilty of only meeting your friends when your boyfriend tells you that he cant meet you for the day? Or changing your plans at the last minute when your bf suddenly asks to meet up? If you have such friends, and these friends call you to meet up, is the first thought that runs through your mind that their bfs probably cant meet them? Or is it always hard to get them to meet you?

I've been on both sides, yes, I've even lose friends because I was the former. Sometimes, even we ourselves find our behaviour pathetic, but then again how many of us really understand the meaning of boyfriends come and go, friends are forever?

The old me had always put him first. I dedicate whatever available time I had for him, the remaining for friends. It taught me a lesson, that you never put your life on hold for any guy. I've lost so many close friends due to that, and usually you never realise what you're missing out on until you lose it. When he and I parted ways, it pains me to think of the lost friendships accumulated over those several months.

All these years, I've counted on two buddies to be there for me through rough times. So far, they've been the most amazing friends one can ask for. Sadly, one of them is leaving us for a few months :(

Here are some of the farewell cum birthday celebration we had for Stella:








WE LOVE YOU STELLA!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!


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