Cheating Husbands
Read Xiaxue's blog.. Her recent entry intrigues me... Something about weak women and how she wants to slap them..
I understand about blind love, but for the woman to go to the extent of tolerating her husband cheating openly in front of her, wow.. I wonder how she does it. I read somewhere that some women behave like this because they are afraid that they wouldnt be able to find someone else if they leave their husbands.
If my husband ever cheats on me, I would slap him across the face so hard that he will forget he ever had a face. Well, I might give him one chance to repent. At most one chance. That is provided if I am feeling magnanimous, which rarely happens. If a guy cheats on you, he will most likely do it again. I know of a friend's friend whose husband cheated on her not once but so many times. The jerk always manages to sweet talk his way out, giving lame excuses which she believes. Each and every time, she clings on to him like he's the perfect husband. When friends talk to her, she claims that love keeps no record of wrongs. Yes true, but why stick with a guy who doesnt even love and respect you????
Fish tells me that he wants me back. All I need to do is give him time. And he has picked up some unusual habits. Like growing his hair out and switching to viceroy. Yeh, jerks like him suck big time.
I understand about blind love, but for the woman to go to the extent of tolerating her husband cheating openly in front of her, wow.. I wonder how she does it. I read somewhere that some women behave like this because they are afraid that they wouldnt be able to find someone else if they leave their husbands.
If my husband ever cheats on me, I would slap him across the face so hard that he will forget he ever had a face. Well, I might give him one chance to repent. At most one chance. That is provided if I am feeling magnanimous, which rarely happens. If a guy cheats on you, he will most likely do it again. I know of a friend's friend whose husband cheated on her not once but so many times. The jerk always manages to sweet talk his way out, giving lame excuses which she believes. Each and every time, she clings on to him like he's the perfect husband. When friends talk to her, she claims that love keeps no record of wrongs. Yes true, but why stick with a guy who doesnt even love and respect you????
Fish tells me that he wants me back. All I need to do is give him time. And he has picked up some unusual habits. Like growing his hair out and switching to viceroy. Yeh, jerks like him suck big time.
12 Comments:
At 4:49 AM, October 06, 2006, Anonymous said…
hello
At 5:19 AM, October 06, 2006, Anonymous said…
Yes, cheaters deserve to be punished. Moreover, the girls/guys who stay with these cheaters should be punished too, because they let cheaters think that it's ok to cheat. Well, it is not so buzz off cheaters!
At 3:07 AM, October 07, 2006, Anonymous said…
I wouldn't be surprised still hearing some women becoming such a martyr. And I admire those who uses their head before their heart :)
wow, ms.xiaxue is such a heavy blogger, she catches every bit of detail huh. but i find her writeups amusing and cool ;)
ciao!
At 3:15 AM, October 07, 2006, Anonymous said…
..and btw, shouldn't your fish be kept in an aquarium? or be eaten by sharks alive?
..just kidding :)
stay cool. ciao!
At 3:25 AM, October 07, 2006, kayeski said…
well.. i guess most of the times, we girls let our hearts rule rather than our heads. I'm guilty of that most of the time :( Lol, my pet fish would be kept in an aquarium.. the fish I know has already been fed to the sharks.. Haha..
At 4:11 AM, October 07, 2006, Anonymous said…
When someone cheats on another, he/she already made a decision to take a risk in facing the consequences.
I agree to your reaction when you are the cheated one. The cheater deserves to be "punished".
At this junction, I would also want look at the "Cheater", Why does he/she cheat? If he/she is all happy, why does he/she take this risk? Unless he/she is insane, otherwise there must be problems. Then, what is the problems....
Many times, Men thinks that they can get away. But can they? Mostly not.
I have a friend, who is so likable by all his friends, one of those most nice nature guy that you cannot imagine him doing any wrongs. When he cheated on his wife, all those that know him and his wife, forgave him. The wife's nature is so extreme that one would have killed himself, killed her, or just leave. He did none of the above.
I would recommend all men to watch a Chinese movie by the famous director, Feng Xiao-Gang, "Shou-Ji" meaning "Mobile Phone". And, I would strongly advice all women NOT to watch it. Unofficially, this movie increased the divorce statistic in Beijing, after it was launched.
Anyway, I am definitely against cheating. I believe in honest, trust, communications and respect, both self and others.
At 5:07 AM, October 07, 2006, Anonymous said…
haha, i was taken aback after seein an inlet weblog-award photo in this girl's blog. no wonder she was hailed best blogger.
and i didn't know about this?!? perhaps bcoz i used to hate blogs, hehe
so thanks ms.kayeski,u've somehow help switched off my 'hate-blog' button (now my friends doesn't need to force me to read through their blogs, hihihi)
regarding your pet fish, is he Nemo? i heard he's lookin for his dad :)
ciao! =)
At 3:47 AM, October 08, 2006, kayeski said…
Hi jb, xiaxue is one of Singapore's most famous blogger.. I read her blog everynow and then.. its interesting :)
At 2:36 AM, October 09, 2006, kayeski said…
Hey JJ, I know you mentioned that women shouldnt watch that movie.. But I am so tempted!
At 1:53 AM, October 16, 2006, raimie said…
ya i reaaaallllyy slap d guy...erm...wat a minute...i m a guy...but i agree with u there. dat kind of men can't be trusted...
At 11:09 AM, October 17, 2006, Anonymous said…
just a message to let u know im still reading ur blog!
Oh well, guys who dont stick to their words (or vows-marriage or whatever) should just be thrown away like used panties.
Dont ya agree?
*grin
At 2:46 PM, October 19, 2006, kayeski said…
hi ad, haha used panties.. what a cool term to describe cheaters.. Anyway, hope u're doing great girl. Cya around!
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